Online sessions across the UK

Specialist help with drugs, alcohol and the things underneath them.

I'm Paul Burrows, an addiction counsellor with lived experience of trauma and recovery. We work at a pace that suits you, and nothing has to be settled in the first session.

MSc Psychology · FDAC specialist · Online sessions available UK-wide

My approach

Less telling you what to do. More working out what's going on.

  • 01We start with what's happening now, not with a list of your failures.
  • 02Change is treated as something you decide, at a pace you choose.
  • 03I bring tools from several evidence-based approaches and use what helps you.
  • 04Sessions are online, so recovery can happen from your own home.
"Part of you wants to change, and part of you doesn't. Both are telling you something useful." Working with ambivalence, one of my core ideas

You don't have to work this out on your own.

Online sessions are available across the UK. Reaching out is the first step, and it's a good one.

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DBT Implementation Plan

1. Goal Setting

Primary Goal: Identify the focus area (e.g., emotion regulation, distress tolerance, interpersonal effectiveness).
Secondary Goals: Improve coping mechanisms, enhance mindfulness, and stabilize emotional responses.

2. Participant Identification

- Determine if the participants are individuals with:
- Diagnosed conditions (e.g., Borderline Personality Disorder, PTSD, Anxiety, etc.).
- Intense emotions, challenging situations, or relationship struggles.

3. Structure Design

  Incorporate the four DBT modules:
1. Mindfulness: Teach present-moment awareness and non-judgmental observation of thoughts.
2. Emotion Regulation: Develop techniques to manage and reduce emotional intensity.
3. Distress Tolerance: Build skills to cope with crises without impulsive actions.
4. Interpersonal Effectiveness: Enhance communication and assertiveness skills.

4. Therapy Modalities

- Individual Sessions: Weekly one-on-one therapy to personalize strategies and track progress.
- Group Skills Training: Weekly sessions (2 hours) to practice and learn DBT skills collaboratively.
- Phone Coaching: On-demand support to apply DBT techniques in real-time challenges.
- Diary Cards: These are tools for participants to track their emotions, behaviours, and progress daily.

5. Treatment Stages

- Stage 1: Stabilize life-threatening behaviours and crises.
- Stage 2: Address emotional instability and reduce distress.
- Stage 3: Build self-management and decision-making skills.
- Stage 4: Foster healthy relationships and life satisfaction.

6. Materials and Resources

- Develop worksheets, roleplay scenarios, and mindfulness exercises.
- Provide access to resources for continued learning (books, apps, online modules).

7. Measurement and Feedback

- Track progress through regular assessments (e.g., reductions in self-harm, improved emotional control).
- Collect feedback from participants to adjust techniques and approaches.
- Emphasize the dialectical approach: balancing acceptance and change.

9. Evaluation

- Conduct pre- and post-treatment evaluations.- Use validated tools to measure outcomes (e.g., improvements in emotional regulation and relationship quality).